By H.L. Archer
A breakup is bad enough to send your emotions skyrocketing, but when your boyfriend leaves you for another woman, it can be devastating. That can raise your emotions to a new level that you never thought possible. You go through the whole range from humiliation, depression, jealousy, and finally rage and hatred. It makes it even worse when you thought everything was fine and you were set for a long and happy relationship with the man you love. If you find yourself in this situation, you might be tempted to let her have him and go on with your life. But that might be very hard to do if you still love him. So, if you are willing to put up a fight for him, there are ways to win your ex boyfriend back, even if he has another woman.
Although you might be tempted to go after the other woman and tear into her, you cannot let your true feelings show. To get your ex boyfriend back, you will have to call upon all of your strength and discipline. If you should encounter the two of them, you will need to put on an act that will be worthy of an academy award. Be very gracious to her and act as if you are happy to meet her. Be cordial to him and act as if you were meeting an old friend and his new girlfriend. If he calls later and asks you what you think of her, be sure not to say anything rude or unflattering about her. Your best response would be to say that you are happy he found someone he could care for.
Acting in this way, will cause him to look at you in a favorable light. It will show him that you are mature enough to handle the situation and get him to wondering if you cared for him as deeply as he thought. Actually, his whole reason for running into you with his new girlfriend could have been to make you jealous. He might be using her as a tool to get you back. He was hoping to see you act cool toward his new girlfriend and get away as fast as possible. This would let him know that he had struck a nerve and that you were still in love with him. This would give him a very comfortable feeling, because if the new relationship does not work out, he will have you to fall back on.
Seeing him with his new girlfriend could temp you to start dating some good looking guy, in an attempt to make your ex jealous. This is not a good idea for two reasons. First, your ex might get the impression, since you seemed to take seeing him with his new girlfriend so well and now you are dating, that you are over him and he had better concentrate on keeping his new woman. It might even force him to commit to her and you will have lost him for good. And second, it also would not be fair to the man you are dating to use him only as a tool to get your ex back.
There are many things to consider in a situation like this, you are walking a fine line and you must be very careful with your words and actions to get your ex back instead of losing him forever.
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